I’m not sure if this really is to do with having kids or if this is just me in general?
My baby boy is 6 months old and I have been with my partner for 6 years, married 3 years. Whenever he comes near me i just do not have any urge what so ever to have sex. Most of the time I just do it because it stops him from pestering me and then I can quickly go to sleep… LOL
It’s definitely not an attraction issue as I find my husband a very attractive man, I just don’t know why I feel this way or what it is? He’s also very experienced and knows what he’s doing so it’s nothing to do with that either…
I know things are never as passionate as the early days but surely I should feel like I want to do it sometimes?? I do feel disgusting with my body at the moment too as I have gained a lot of weight since having a baby so that probably adds to it too.
Sometimes I find myself waking up from dreams of having sex with another man, what the fuck is that all about?!
Anyway, am I the only who feels like this, does this mean I need to get some help if so what help is there for me?