Trying to conceive

 A few years ago I had a miscarriage after years of trying and I went to the doctors and a sometime had ivf which was unsuccessful so I had another cycle which was successful but at 8 weeks I had a miscarriage. Iv been finding it hard to cope with since then my second miscarriage was a few months ago and everyone around me is having babies and it’s been a real struggle. I’m worried I won’t be able to be a mum. I’m always hoping and praying for a miracle but it’s just so hard to keep positive and believe. I have been having counselling but I don’t think this is helping. 

4 thoughts on “Trying to conceive

  1. Anonymous says:

    Oh my goodness, my heart really does go out to you. I can only imagine how much you are hurting. It took me 15 months to concieve and a few months before I got my positive I was getting so so upset, every month it would feel like I failed when my period would return. I know you will have heard this all before, but please do not give up. Have the doctors explained what’s wrong?

  2. Anonymous says:

    Ohhh noo this is heartbreaking to hear! I have also had 3 miscarriages so I know how much you are hurting but I now have two beautiful children. Dont give up because it can work for you too. My auntie had 6 miscarriages on the run and finally had a healthy pregnancy and they found out she wasnt able to carry boys just girls so this explains all of the miscarriages. Go for more checks,demand more tests and you will get there one way or another.

  3. Anonymous says:

    I’m also trying for kids and really hope o have some soon, I feel like I am letting my family and husband down 🙁 I really hope this month is the month

    • Anonymous says:

      hang on in there mama it will happen. it took me quite a while and i really felt like i was starting to loose the plot, i would get so so upset every month when my period showed up. But do you know what? the wait makes your pregnancy SO special, I loved being pregnant any bad symptoms went straight over my head because I was just so grateful to have them. sending love your way your time will come x

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